And let me be so clear as to say, I would never break some ones heart, especially the woman I love. Someone asks, how can you be so sure of yourself? I say this, I know who I am and whose I am. And this word, a man is only as good as his word. Is not his word his bond. A man's word should be his bond it should never be broken, no matter what. Here is an ism, a man who breaks his word is like a captain of a sinking ship caught in a terrible storm, whose captain know not wither to jump off the ship or go down with the ship, and whose crew have all abandoned him.